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    HOW TO CHOOSE THE PERFECT CLOTH DIAPERING SYSTEM!

    HOW TO CHOOSE
    THE PERFECT CLOTH DIAPERING SYSTEM!

    Congratulations!!
    Whether you are newly pregnant, or the parent of a toddler (or two!), you have a lot of choices ahead of you.

    Just as you gathered information on pregnancy, birth and infant care - so you will want your diapering choice to be an informed one.

    For some, the decision to go with cloth instead of single-use ("disposable") diapers is just one step closer to a cleaner environment for you and the newest member of our global family!

    By the time your baby is toilet-trained you will have changed about 6,000 diapers. Don't you agree such an important part of your baby's life deserves very careful thought? Since investing in cloth diapers can sometimes be a major financial decision, it pays to become knowledgeable about the choices available.

    The average new parent chooses a brand of diapers for the following three reasons: easily located, cheap price or their best friend uses that particular brand. You owe it to your baby's comfort, and your wallet, to read further.

    In a simple question and answer format, the following information will help you to examine your needs, desires and lifestyle - to help you decide on the perfect diapering system for your baby and you.

    QUESTION: Are "disposable" diapers really a problem!?

    Imagine burying 6,000 dirty diapers in your own backyard, or neighbourhood par. That's two and a half tonnes of "disposable" waste created by just ONE baby in a complete 2 1/2 year diapering period. Each individual has a responsibility to help protect our environment, and each one of us CAN make a difference!

    SUGGESTION: For at least a two week period, collect all your used "disposable" diapers in a green garbage bag in a corner of your kitchen - don't throw any of them out! Sure, they will take up a lot of space, and will probably stink - think about it!!!
    (If you are still pregnant, ask a friend with a baby in "disposable" diapers to try this for you. Ask her what she thinks after two weeks.)

    QUESTION: The initial outlay for cloth diapers seems quite high.
    Is it really worth it?

    Most parents don't realize just how much they spend on "disposable" diapers, as the cost usually gets buried in the weekly grocery bill. By only purchasing one package at a time, parents often don't stop to add up the dollars spent each month.

    Single-use ("disposable") diapers ARE expensive. You can expect to change your new baby's diapers up to 320 times in just the first month alone! At a cost of anywhere from 18-33 cents per single-use diaper, you'll have spent $57.60 to $105.60! To diaper your baby in single-use diapers for 2 1/2 years will cost you $1,559.00 + $109.13 GST, for a total cost of $1,668.13!!!

    Depending on the cloth diapering system you choose, it wouldn't take long to recoup your initial investment. Simple flat squares and quality brand waterproof pull-on pants would begin paying their own way in less than TWO MONTHS. Even if you opt for the top-of-the-line fitted diapers and Cot'nwrap covers, they would begin to pay their own way in less than a year.
    That means your second and third years of diapering are FREE!!!

    SUGGESTION: Choose three of your favourite diapering options, and cost them out - diapers, night liners and covers.

    QUESTION: What if finances are a real problem?

    Inexpensive flat or prefolded diapers, fasten by Di-D-Klips, Snappy Diaper Dastener or diaper pins, covered with Babykin nylon pants, can be had for less than $130.00. Or, using these diapers inside Velcro® or snap-closing covers, such as Cot'nwrap, Bummis or Babykins wraps offer you all the convenience and advantages of a fitted or an all-in-one diaper - at a much more economical price.

    SUGGESTION: Ask for the more expensive diapers and covers for shower, baby Christmas and birthday gifts.
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    QUESTION: Isn't washing diapers hard work and time-consuming?

    Parents no longer need to wash diapers. We have machines to do it for us.

    Try this routine: Toss two dozen diapers into your washing machine, setting it to PreSoak/Superwash with Cold Wash/Rinse. Take your baby to your change area and change baby's diaper. Prepare yourself a cup of tea, and something to snack on. Return to your washing machine, and set it to Regular Wash with Hot Wash/Cold Rinse. As the machine fills, toss in 1/2 to 1 cup of non-phosphate, gentle detergent (NOT Tide® with Bleach!) and, if your diapers are stained, non-chlorinated bleach.

    Go relax in your favourite chair, put your feet up, enjoying your favourite radio or TV program or book, while baby nurses off to sleep. Lay baby down in a safe place, toss the clean diapers into your dryer, and enjoy the peace and quiet. When baby wakes up, you'll have fluffy, clean diapers ready to use!

    Now, did that take any longer than bundling up baby, trekking out to the mall, hauling home huge bags of "disposable" diapers with baby in tow, and then lugging the dirty diapers out to the curb on trash day!?

    SUGGESTION: If you breast-feed and use cloth diapers, you will save more than enough to treat yourself to a new washer and dryer!

    QUESTION: Why do you recommend using a diaper service for baby's first few weeks?

    Diaper services provide you with clean diapers on a weekly basis. Their diapers are bacteria-free, subjected to extremely hot temperatures and bacteria-killing rinses. The cost is at least two times that of washing your own diapers - but your time is precious in those early weeks. Spend your time recovering, establishing a good milk supply and enjoying your new baby . . . without adding to our growing landfill and environmental problems.

    SUGGESTION: If you choose to stay with the diaper service - you'll only need to buy one dozen diapers for emergencies and some waterproof covers.

    QUESTION: But I'm used to "disposables", and afraid to change! What diaper system offers the maximum convenience?

    All-in-One diapers are used exactly as a single-use diaper. The only differences are they fasten with Velcro® or snaps instead of tabs, and you toss them into a diaper pail instead of a garbage pail.

    SUGGESTION: Babykins All-in-One diapers or Bummis and Chinese prefolds offer all the ease of "disposables", at a very affordable price.

    QUESTION: Is it important the diaper/cover be breathable?
    Diaper rash can be a problem for my baby.

    All-in-one diapers tend not to be breathable, so if your baby needs frequent airing due to diaper rash . . . you may be better off with a two-part diapering system.

    SUGGESTION: If you prefer to purchase all-in-one diapers, get an additional dozen without covers - to use when baby's bottom gets rashy. Cot'nwraps 100% cotton covers are totally breathable, so are an excellent way to reduce diaper rash. If diaper rash is caused by urine contact, and frequent changes don't seem to help, trying wiping a layer of Baby Unpetrolium® Jelly on your baby's bottom at each diaper change.

    QUESTION: What are the other disadvantages of All-in-One diapers?

    Attached waterproof covers tend to result in a less thorough cleaning through the layers, since dirt and bacteria can become trapped. Further, this type of diaper tends to take longer to dry, since the dryer heat can only pass through one side of the diaper.

    SUGGESTION: Babykins All-in-One diapers have the diaper part only partially attached, which greatly improves cleaning and drying. Try using a Velcro® wrap such as Bummis and flat or prefolded diapers. Once the diaper is folded and placed in this type of cover, it goes on as easily as an all-in-one - yet comes apart for easy cleaning and quick drying.

    QUESTION: Does owning your own washer and dryer make a difference?

    Owning your own full-size machines makes laundering your cloth diapers simple! If you plan to wash every day or so, you'll only need to buy 1 to 2 dozen diapers. If, however, you must take your diapers to a common laundry-room or laundromat - you'll probably want to go longer between wash days. So you will need about 3 to 4 dozen.

    SUGGESTION: If you have no access to laundry facilities, a diaper service might be your best option - clean, soft cotton diapers delivered right to your doorstep. Still cheaper than using "disposable" diapers!

    QUESTION: Since I have to pay for my own Hydro (or use a coin-operated washer and dryer), how can I save money?

    If your diapers take longer to dry than 60 minutes - this will add up in extra expense. If you decide to wash every day, remember that several small loads cost more than waiting till you have a full load.

    SUGGESTION: Wait to wash until you have 20-24 dirty diapers. Flat diapers dry in just 30-40 minutes. Or, machine-dry your diapers for just 10-15 minutes, then hang to finish drying. Hang up your covers to dry. They usually will still dry with an hour or so.

    QUESTION: What if I don't have time or desire to fold diapers?

    Some parents find folding diapers very therapeutic . . . or they do it while watching TV. But if you have several other children, a very busy lifestyle or work outside the home - you may not have time, or want to fold diapers.

    SUGGESTION: Prefolded and shaped diapers require very little folding. Just store diapers in a laundry basket as they come out of the dryer. Or try fitted and all-in-one diapers, which require no folding at all.

    QUESTION: But I hate to use diaper pins!?

    Velcro® and snap-closing diapers or covers eliminate the need for pins. Di-D-Klips or a Snappy Diaper Fastener eliminate pins too. Pins can be managed by most parents, but if you are wanting a speedy, easy fit - try a pinless system. There IS a certain skill required for neat and quick pinning.

    SUGGESTIONS: Cot'nwrap, Bummis, Babykins, Gerber EZ-Cover, etc. or Di-D-Klips and Snappy Diaper Fastener eliminate the need of pins.

    QUESTION: Should I buy one-size-fits-all? Or diapers that come in different sizes? Will one-size diapers really fit until my baby is trained?

    Some one-size diapers fit the average baby, but SOME DON'T! Buying one-size diapers can save money over sized diapers, IF THEY FIT. If the babies in your (or your partner's) family tend to be large (i.e. 25+lbs at one year) you'll probably find yourself needing to buy a second set of larger diapers - if you've chosen shaped, fitted or all-in- one diapers.

    SUGGESTION: Use flats or prefolds, babies tend not to outgrow these. Use night liners inside Velcro® covers for your newborn instead of a size small diaper, then purchase only the size large diapers. Re-use the night liners when baby wettings get heavier. Or buy the largest fitted diaper, by the crotch depth and waist measurements.

    QUESTION: My baby has very chubby legs. Can you help?

    Some diapers have their elastic so tight around baby's legs, it leaves red marks. The elastic should hold softly while preventing messy leaks.

    SUGGESTION: Flats, prefolds and shaped diapers have no elastic to bind your baby's tender skin. Babykins fitted diapers have high-cut legs, avoiding this problem. Angel tie-wraps and Babysnibbs have no elastic, so are perfect for chubby legs.

    QUESTION: My baby is a very heavy wetter. Any suggestions???

    Look for a diaper with over 300 grams of absorbency - with a terrycloth or polyrayon core, or an all-terry diaper. Or use Terry Diaper Doublers!

    SUGGESTION: Try out our Snug-to-Fit (formally Snap-to-Fit)or Cotton Kids diapers. These are the most absorbent diapers we could find! Double diaper with our thick and thirsty Terry Doublers - made of 3 layers of 16 ounce terrycloth! This method should last even the heaviest wetter through the night! Make sure your covers have a good, snug fit around your baby's legs to prevent leakage.

    QUESTION: Are there any other concerns about the elastic
    - other than being too tight?

    The elastic should be heat and chlorine-safe, to stand up to the rugged washing diapers must undergo. Chlorine and the heat of the diaper deteriorate regular elastics (as well as Velcro® and vinyl). The elastic should be completely enclosed, so it doesn't pinch or bind your baby's tender skin.

    SUGGESTION: Use flat or prefolded diapers inside a Velcro® or snap-closing cover. Since the elastic and Velcro® are only on the cover it tends not to need to be washed as frequently as your diapers. This means the covers are subjected to less heat and wear during laundering.

    QUESTION: What are the advantages (and disadvantages) of Velcro®?

    Velcro® offers an infinite range of adjustments, and makes diapering fast and easy enough for even Daddy to try. Middle-of-the-night changes are a breeze. Velcro® needs to be protected for laundering and drying - to keep them from hooking and tangling one another. If you use bleach and machine-dry, Velcro® tends not to hold as securely after time. Velcro® with loose edges, that are easily grabbed, is often undone by baby . . . very much to the distress of their parents! Some diapers do not provide long enough Velcro® for a secure hold. Watch for sharp corners or rough edges, which may irritate your baby's skin.

    SUGGESTION: Babykins diapers fasten in back, which helps to prevent toddlers from unfastening them. Bummis and Industrial Wraps are harder for toddler fingers to grasp.

    QUESTION: What are the advantages (and disadvantages) of snaps?

    Snaps tend to provide a more secure fit, but have a slightly less adjustment range than Velcro®. Two snaps per side holds more securely, and offers a better fit. If snaps are not securely fastened, they may fall off during laundering. Metal snaps that touch baby's skin may irritate it.

    SUGGESTION: Snug-to-Fit (formally Snap-to-Fit) diapers have a unique system of snaps to make it a one-size-fits-all diaper. Litewraps and Snapiwraps come with both Velcro® and snaps, for a more secure fit.

    QUESTION: What are the advantages (and disadvantages) of Tie-wraps?

    Diapers and covers that fasten with ties are easily adjusted to fit, and offer the widest variety of sizes. Cotton ties tend to get wet along with the diaper, which causes them to tighten. This can make them difficult to untie. Polyester ties don't soak up wetness, or tighten. They are stronger, and last longer. Cotton ties tend to tangle in the wash, polyester doesn't.

    SUGGESTION: Try our Angel nylon Tie-wraps.

    QUESTION: Some of my friends say I should buy diapers made of cotton only. Could you tell me why?

    Cotton fillers absorb moisture quicker, and wick it away from your baby's skin to evaporate, leaving baby's skin cooler and drier. Every time you introduce a synthetic material you raise the temperature inside the diaper slightly, and increase the risk of an allergic reaction. Synthetic pads or fiberfill can trap dirt and bacteria, so are often harder to keep clean. Inner paddings of 100% rayon are said to go rock-hard after several washings. Loose fiberfill tends to shift and lump up.

    SUGGESTION: Diapers with a low rayon count, with a breathable cover such as Cot'nwrap.

    QUESTION: I've noticed some diapers have quite a bit of quilting.
    Could this be a problem?

    Every row of stitching will add to the drying time, and making it harder to clean out the dirt and bacteria. Leakage can occur at any stitching point appearing on the outside of an all-in-one or diaper cover.

    SUGGESTION: Babykins All-in-One diapers have an open-flap system for quick-drying. Bummis and Industrial Wraps have little outside stitching, so are less likely to leak.

    QUESTION: Why are waist and crotch fit so important?

    Like any clothing, diapers need to be designed properly to fit well. It needs to prevent messy leaks, without being overly bulky. If the diaper is to narrow at the crotch, it will leak. If it's too wide, the fabric will bunch up and make your baby uncomfortable. If diapers are cut too high at the sides and gaps at the front, you will need to overly-tighten it at the waist to make the diaper fit properly at baby's legs.

    The waist should adjust to fit your baby - too wide, it will fall off a newborn. Too small, it won't fit around a chubby belly. The crotch depth should be deep enough to last till training, yet adjust small enough that your newborn won't be lost!

    SUGGESTION: For a newborn or small baby, start out with the smallest diaper cover, using night liners inside. These are big enough to cover a newborn's bottom . . . and can be used until your baby fits into the larger size diaper. Then use the liners again inside your baby's diaper for extra absorbency!

    QUESTION: I think the frill around the baby's legs and waist are so cute! Is there any other difference to the diapers that are bound at their edges?

    Diapers with a frill should be Safety-Lock serged, to provide greater durability. Otherwise it may unravel. Make sure all of the frill on the diaper is tucked inside the cover to prevent leaks. Some feel there is better protection against leakage when the elastic is sewn right to the edge. However, you should check that the edges are bound in soft trim, with no harsh edges or exposed elastic to pinch or irritate your baby's delicate skin. Also it should be bound in a non-absorbent material, or it will wick moisture out to baby's clothing.

    QUESTION: Why shouldn't I just choose the most absorbent diaper? Isn't that all that's really important?

    The most absorbent diaper will not necessarily meet all your needs. It might require buying several sizes, be a poor fit for your baby, not offer the convenience you are looking for (i.e. an all-in-one, breathable like Cot'nwrap). It may have a synthetic padding, when you demand all-cotton. It may fasten with Velcro®, when you wanted snaps, ties or clips. It may take longer to dry, leak at the legs, or be poorly constructed. You must also take your finances into consideration. PLUS, babies should be changed every two to three hours anyway (even when in "disposables"!). Unless your baby is a heavy wetter, you may have bought more diaper than you need, while losing the features that are more important to you.

    SUGGESTION: Choose the diapering system that fits all your needs and budget best, and add extra liners for night-time or heavy-wetters.

    QUESTION: How can I save money on those expensive "designer" diapers?

    Ask for this kind of diaper as gifts. Use Velcro® or snap-closing covers, with a less expensive diaper inside. Buy a pattern and the fabric of your choice, and make your own!

    QUESTION: Should I stick to just one diapering system?
    Or is it possible to mix and match?

    Almost any diaper will fit well with any liner or cover. Find the diapers, covers and liners that meet both your baby's and your needs best.

    SUGGESTION:Try something like this: Fitted diapers for every-day use. Flats for emergencies, and folded up inside your fitted diapers for double-diapering at night. Use Babykins pull-on pants for regular use, Cot'nwraps if baby gets a diaper rash, Cotton Bummis for dress-up or summer shorts. And maybe some Angel Tie-Wraps in your diaper bag for emergencies. Think up your own combinations, to fit YOUR lifestyle and budget!

    QUESTION: What about diaper covers, pullons and wraps? How do I choose?

    Waterproof covers are a necessary complement to cloth diapers. These covers come in the following styles: pull-ons, tie-ons, Velcro® and snap-closing. Covers come in a wide variety of materials: wool, waterproof 100% cotton, acrylic, polyester, plastic, vinyl and nylon. Prices range from 3/$1.59 for cheap plastic pull-ons to $40.00 for all-wool Nikkys.

    SUGGESTIONS: Hand-knit your own Down Under soakers to save money!

    QUESTION: Tell me more about these diaper covers, pull-ons and wraps?

    PLASTIC - Cheap plastic pull-ons are not a smart investment. They harden and crack with repeated launderings, and the elastic at the waist and legs tends to irritate baby's skin. Because plastic doesn't allow moisture to evaporate, it can contribute to diaper rash. It is worthwhile spending a few dollars more for good waterproof pull-ons that will last.

    SUGGESTION: Babykins vinyl or nylon pull-ons, Whisper nylon pull-ons.

    PINLESS COVERS - Waterproof pants not only prevent messy leaks, but can also (depending on how snugly it fits) hold the diaper in place without pins. If you want to avoid using pins, consider Velcro®, snap or tie-on diaper covers.

    SUGGESTION: Angel Tie-Wraps are an economical nylon tie-pant. Unlined Babykins Velcro® wraps are also a good choice.

    BREATHABLE COVERS - There are many types of diaper covers that come in 100% wool, polyester, fleece or cotton, are 100% breathable and water-resistant. They are an excellent choice to help prevent diaper rash - and they eliminate the need of pins at the same time. The disadvantages are if baby is left wet for more than one to two hours, or is a heavy-wetter - these covers do tend to leak. Plus,some brands are VERY expensive.

    SUGGESTION: Double diaper or use extra liners. Use breathable covers during the day, when you are able to change baby more frequently and Babykins nylon pull-ons for night-time protection. Or, try some of the more reasonable alternative brands such as Cot'nwrap (100% cotton and breathable), Litewrap ( 100% polyester and breathable) or Bummis nylon wraps (100% nylon and somewhat breathable).

    As you can see...
    there is more involved in making a decision about diapering than just choosing the brand your best friend is using. Diapering affects your baby's health and safety, your lifestyle and budget.
    And everyone's environment!

    We recommend that you review the facts about each diapering option, before you decide. Once you have chosen, you can feel confident you have made an informed decision on the perfect diaper for your baby and you.

    Happy diapering!


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