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Miscarriage: Am I a Mother?

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You may ask, Am I a mother?

Image: Miscarriage: A Shattered Dream, by Sherokee Ilse (Author), Linda Hammer Burns (Author). Publisher: Wintergreen Press; 4th edition (July 5, 2006)

Miscarriage - A Shattered Dream
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It may - or may not - have been a planned pregnancy.
You may - or may not - have been in love with your baby's father.
It may have been your first - or your eighth pregnancy.
You may already have a child or children.
Or you may have suffered a previous or more losses.

You may have been happily - or unhappily - married - or single.
You may have been very young - or approaching menopause.
You may have been looking excitedly towards giving birth...
Towrads loving and caring for this child.
Or terrified at the prospect.

You may have begun to lose your baby before you even knew you were pregnant.
The confirmation of your pregnancy may have been quickly followed by cramping and bleeding.
You may have had a few weeks to ponder your pregnancy.
You may have felt your baby kick...
heard your baby's heartbeat...
seen your baby on ultrasound.

It may have happened suddenly, over within a few hours.
You may have bled for several days before your baby was lost.
You may have spent weeks on bed rest, with cramping and staining.
You may have experienced months of trouble with an unstable pregnancy.

Image: I Never Held You: Miscarriage, Grief, Healing and Recovery, by Ellen M. DuBois (Author), Dr. Linda R. Backman Ed.D (Commentary). Publisher: CreateSpace Independent Publishing Platform (January 23, 2006)

I Never Held You - Miscarriage, Grief, Healing and Recovery
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Maybe you had an etopic pregnancy.
Or a blighted ovum.
Maybe you had an incompetent cervix.
Or placenta previa.
Your uterus may be an unusual shape.
Or your hormonal system imbalanced.
You may have a problem with your chromosomes.
Or in the father's sperm.
You may not even know the reason why,

BUT...

You conceived a child.
You carried a child within your body.
You birthed a child, in blood and pain.

If your child survived long enough in your womb...
you may have even held your child.
You may have watched your child die.

YOU ARE A MOTHER!

 

Miscarriage poetry by Catherine McDiarmid-Watt - in memory of her 11 babies lost.

 

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This article compliments of Born to Love.


Other articles that might be of interest:

• Miscarriage Article Index
• Shattered Dreams Book-List
• Shattered Dreams Back Issue List
• Poetry of Loss
• Miscarriage: So Terribly Empty
• Death of a Dream
• My Babies, Never-To-Be-Known
• Am I a Mother?
• Miscarriage: Why Grieve?
• What a Shock! Anger?
• Emptiness
• Waiting
• Miscarriage IS a Real Loss
• Subsequent Pregnancy
• Shattered Dreams: To a Subsequent Child
• Multiple Losses
• How Do You Manage?
• Sharing
• Understanding
• How Do You Maintain HOPE?

 


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